just me ranting about being nice
hey. how are you guys doing mentally and physically ? hope that all of you are doing okay in life and if not , just breathe . Calm yourself and go drink some water and believe that you can do this :) its been a while since i write something here and the main reason of that is because this girl have been busy with her exam and im glad that its finally over . the last entry that i did which is the Care About You , get soooo many positive feedbacks . alot of people open up to me about how they felt and thank me for that . i couldnt be more happier when i received all of those kind words ! so thank you everyone , glad that at least i make you feel better . okay cut to the chase , i wanted to talk about something that i've been dying ceh no la not dying but wanting to talk about . Be Nice .
what a simple word , but somehow really important in life . i always told by my parents to be nice and i couldnt find a reason why i should . but being a good daughter i am , i did what they asked me to and man oh man , 15 years of existence , finally , i get the answer why . storytime . one night many many months ago , i have a bad day lets just say that i have a shitty day . nothing works for me , i've been feeling negative the whole day and something happen that day . so i felt sad and cries an ocean that night . somehow i feel really depressed because i know that i cannot change the fact that 'something' just happened and start to get depressing thoughts . i think that is like the worst day of my life but little did i know its not . the next day is . so i woke up at 6 am after sleeping at 3 am feeling , not okay . i get ready for school , i went to school with no energy and not a happy mood and my friends understand it . then , i needed a help on an assignment and i ask someone to help me . and the ***** didnt because the person doesnt want to . and i totally understand that its completely fine if you dont wanna help but the words that came out from the person is unacceptable . the person was being rude about me asking help and the way the person said it is like im such a burden and one thing that the person said that i will never forget is " i dont know why you come to me to ask help , cant you do it alone ? shame on you " and man oh man , i thank the person and leave the place a soon as possible and cried like i never cry before . i just have a bad day yesterday and hoping that it will get better that day , but one person destroyed everything . Every god damn thing . The person ruin my whole day . Im hurted . If you dont wanna help , say it nicely . Be nice . You never know what a person is going through .
i feel really shit about myself after that , i feel like am i that bad ? am i that weak for asking help ? so day goes on and lesson learnt . be nice . because you never know what a person is going through . maybe he/she just had the worst day of their life . maybe he/she lost something meaningful to them . maybe they just finish an argument with their loved ones , who knows? so be be nice , to everyone , everywhere you go .
thank the cashier when you buy something , thank the cleaner for giving you a clean environment , thank the female who timbang your fruits or vege at the grocery , thank the grab driver for giving you a ride , thank the waiter for delivering the meal , thank the abang dominos for delivering you happiness and the most important thing , thank yourself after doing something . a simple smile and thank you can change someone's mood and day trust me . always be nice . do good and good will surrounds you .
thats all for now . more entry coming soon and im so excited ! i will be talking about new topics like racism , human rights and things that our society doesnt want to talk about . so stay tune for that !!!!! again , i hope that all of us can be nice towards each other , no matter what race you are , what your beliefs are , what sexuality you are or even what skin color you have . be nice okay ? always be nice . take care of yourself and put yourself first okay ? bye <3
x,
what a simple word , but somehow really important in life . i always told by my parents to be nice and i couldnt find a reason why i should . but being a good daughter i am , i did what they asked me to and man oh man , 15 years of existence , finally , i get the answer why . storytime . one night many many months ago , i have a bad day lets just say that i have a shitty day . nothing works for me , i've been feeling negative the whole day and something happen that day . so i felt sad and cries an ocean that night . somehow i feel really depressed because i know that i cannot change the fact that 'something' just happened and start to get depressing thoughts . i think that is like the worst day of my life but little did i know its not . the next day is . so i woke up at 6 am after sleeping at 3 am feeling , not okay . i get ready for school , i went to school with no energy and not a happy mood and my friends understand it . then , i needed a help on an assignment and i ask someone to help me . and the ***** didnt because the person doesnt want to . and i totally understand that its completely fine if you dont wanna help but the words that came out from the person is unacceptable . the person was being rude about me asking help and the way the person said it is like im such a burden and one thing that the person said that i will never forget is " i dont know why you come to me to ask help , cant you do it alone ? shame on you " and man oh man , i thank the person and leave the place a soon as possible and cried like i never cry before . i just have a bad day yesterday and hoping that it will get better that day , but one person destroyed everything . Every god damn thing . The person ruin my whole day . Im hurted . If you dont wanna help , say it nicely . Be nice . You never know what a person is going through .
i feel really shit about myself after that , i feel like am i that bad ? am i that weak for asking help ? so day goes on and lesson learnt . be nice . because you never know what a person is going through . maybe he/she just had the worst day of their life . maybe he/she lost something meaningful to them . maybe they just finish an argument with their loved ones , who knows? so be be nice , to everyone , everywhere you go .
thank the cashier when you buy something , thank the cleaner for giving you a clean environment , thank the female who timbang your fruits or vege at the grocery , thank the grab driver for giving you a ride , thank the waiter for delivering the meal , thank the abang dominos for delivering you happiness and the most important thing , thank yourself after doing something . a simple smile and thank you can change someone's mood and day trust me . always be nice . do good and good will surrounds you .
thats all for now . more entry coming soon and im so excited ! i will be talking about new topics like racism , human rights and things that our society doesnt want to talk about . so stay tune for that !!!!! again , i hope that all of us can be nice towards each other , no matter what race you are , what your beliefs are , what sexuality you are or even what skin color you have . be nice okay ? always be nice . take care of yourself and put yourself first okay ? bye <3
x,
aisha